One Communication Tool You Should Add to Your Toolkit
Want to provide better feedback, introduce people, or master small talk? Try this technique.
How many different communication actions do you engage in during a typical 15-minute stretch?
I asked my students and consulting clients in an informal poll, and the results surprised me. My “subjects” were engaging in up to five different types of communication actions in this short time period — and I wasn’t even counting texts or emails.
From answering questions to initiating small talk, from introducing people to each other to providing feedback, we all find ourselves needing to adeptly manage different types of communication. This nimbleness, when paired with social expectations of appropriateness and efficiency in our communication, can be quite daunting to even the most experienced.
The key to managing these different types of communication is to leverage structures. Communication structures serve as scaffolding for our messages. They allow us easy starting points, transitions, and clear endings. They help us to be concise and relevant. Finally, research evidence exists that structured information is more easily processed and remembered by our audiences.
While many structures exist, I have found one structure reigns supreme in applicability and simplicity: The “What? So what? Now what?” structure must be part of your communication toolkit.
This structure is logical and clear. Let me break it down:
First, define or describe your key ideas or arguments. Do so in a clear, concise manner devoid of jargon and flourishes. Ask yourself, “What are the critical few bits of information that I need to convey to maximize fidelity?”
This second part has you focusing on the relevance of your ideas or arguments to your audience. You must be sure to take your audience’s perspective into account. Remember, if you are to maximize fidelity and remembering, it’s less about what you want to say and more about what your audience needs to hear. Say to yourself: “The bottom line for you (my audience) is…”
Finally, your last part highlights the thoughts, feelings, and actions you wish your audience to hold or enact. Be clear and direct in how you phrase these so as to reduce ambiguity. Be cognizant of the tone you use to convey this information. Your tone (e.g., sense of urgency, confidence, excitement, etc.) directly impacts your audience’s perception of both you and your message.
At the highest level, the “What? So what? Now what?” structure affords you cognitive bandwidth because it provides you with how you intend to convey your messages so you can focus on the specific details of what you wish to say. With practice, you can learn to manage the barrage of communication situations you face by deploying this Swiss Army Knife of communication structures.
How does this structure look in practice? Here are some ways you can employ this technique.
Questions are a great opportunity to deploy this structure. For example, imagine a job interview where you are asked: “Why are you qualified for this job?”
- What? I have over 12 years of experience in customer-facing work addressing challenges such as migrating to new systems and implementing new processes.
- So what? These previous experiences will help me provide your customers with high-quality results, while also assisting you to streamline your deployment process.
- Now what? I’m happy to have you discuss my qualifications with some of my former clients.
I often coach clients who need to provide constructive feedback to leverage this structure. For example, you have a colleague who failed to complete his report on time.
- What? I’ve noticed that your report was not submitted within our agreed upon timeframe.
- So what? This puts us at a disadvantage for practicing our pitch and might jeopardize our client meeting.
- Now what? I need for you to complete this report by tomorrow morning. Please let me know what I can do to assist you.
Introducing Something or Someone
Introductions can often ramble and confuse. Using this structure can help you be clear and set expectations for what is to come.
- What? I am excited to introduce the latest version of our product. In this release we’ve added many usability enhancements and improved our speed.
- So what? Now our clients can more easily complete their tasks and save time and money.
- Now what? When you leave this conference session, please install it today.
- What? I am honored to introduce Dr. Jonas Smith, who is here to discuss her insights into game theory.
- So what? Her work has changed the way many people go about making daily decisions. I am certain you will think differently when you leave here tonight.
- Now what? Without further ado, join me in welcoming Dr. Smith.
Making Small Talk
Many of us struggle to engage in small talk, especially with people we don’t know well. This structure can help you to engage and sustain initial conversations. Simply use the three questions to get your targets to express themselves.
- What? What do you know about the latest attempt to reduce energy consumption?
- So what? Why do you think it is so important to reduce energy?
- Now what? What can I do to help reduce my energy use?